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Baxter Gardner: struck by lightning

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Baxter Tillman GARDNER was the son of Bennie GARDNER (1888-1920) and Jessie PATRICK GARDNER BYRD (1892-1967). Baxter was the middle child of their three children. Baxter is my 2nd cousin, twice remove and related to me through my Grant line.

Baxter was born 20 December 1914 in South Carolina, likely Chesterfield or Marlboro County.

Baxter’s father

In 1920, six-year old Baxter and his family lived in Alligator, Chesterfield County, South Carolina. His father, Bennie, worked for the railroad. Later in 1920, Bennie died. You can read about it here.Train public domain

Baxter’s mother

I couldn’t find Baxter or his siblings in the 1930 census or where they lived during the 1920’s. I believe, though, that I found Baxter’s mother, Jessie, living in North Carolina with a new husband, King Edward BYRD. This Jessie had two young children with King.

The reason I believe this is Baxter’s mother is because on Baxter’s death certificate, his mother’s maiden name is listed as Jessie Patrick. The informant was a John Gardner of Cheraw who was likely Baxter’s uncle or grandfather. It makes sense that either of them would have known Jessie’s correct maiden name.

I researched from the point of view that Jessie’s maiden name was Patrick instead of Byrd, Byrd being what other researchers claimed. Enough facts matched up that I can say I believe Patrick was Jessie’s maiden name and she married King Byrd after Bennie died. I need to do more research, though. And I still don’t know why she left her children behind when she married King Byrd.Farm-1

Baxter’s early adult life

In 1930, Baxter’s brother, Clyde would have been 17 and likely working on a farm somewhere. He died in 2008, so he was just missed in the 1930 census. I believe the same is true for Baxter, who was 16 in 1930. I don’t know about their sister, Jessie. I can’t find anything past 1920 for her.

In 1933, 19-year old Baxter worked at the Evegett (Everett) place near Smithville, Marlboro County, South Carolina as a farm laborer. Smithville was near present-day Brightsville in Marlboro County.Lightning public domain

A summer storm

On July 1, 1933 a thunderstorm came up in the early afternoon. Baxter and another farm worker, Rob McDOUGALL, took refuge in a barn.

According the The State newspaper, lightning struck the barn and destroyed it. Rob was seriously injured. Baxter was killed.

This was another tragic loss for the Gardner family in just a few years. There are more to be written about still.

Baxter is buried at Mt. Elon Cemetery in Hartsville, Darlington County, South Carolina along with his father and grandparents.

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  1. Michael Dyer says

    July 17, 2016 at 9:03 pm

    What a terribly unfortunate tragedy. Good luck with your continued research into Jessie Patrick.

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    • NancyHVest says

      July 18, 2016 at 7:31 pm

      Thanks, Michael. 🙂

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  2. Elizabeth Gray says

    May 17, 2021 at 11:26 pm

    Hi Nancy, I’m not sure if you still frequent this blog – but Jessie, Baxter’s sister, was my maternal great-grandmother and I was extremely fortunate to have her very closely involved in my life until she passed when I was around 14. Her birth name is Mildred Jessie Patrick, to make it a little difficult in searching. She had 4 brothers – Baxter Gardner, Clyde Gardner, Ralph Byrd, and Edward Byrd. She went on to have 3 sons, 11 grandchildren, 21 great grandchildren, and still counting on the great grands. I would love to share our family’s history with you if you would like to connect.

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    • Nancy H. Vest says

      July 8, 2021 at 4:05 pm

      I am in the middle of some personal stuff that has been keeping me busy and not blogging, but that will change in the next week. I have so missed blogging. Anyway, thank you for commenting and sharing about your Gardner people. I’m sorry to be so long in responding to this comment. I hope you’ll contact me directly at nancyhvest@gmail,com. I’d love to connect. 🙂

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  3. Elizabeth Gray says

    May 17, 2021 at 11:36 pm

    I apologize – my grandma was born Mildred Jessie Gardner. Later in marriage Bibb. Her mother’s maiden name was Patrick, then Gardner, and then Byrd.

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    • Nancy H. Vest says

      July 8, 2021 at 4:22 pm

      I just read Jessie’s obituary on Find-A-Grave. She lived quite a life, didn’t she. 🙂

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